Capitals, Aug 31 (SANA) As the new school year approaches, making friends and feeling accepted by classmates can be just as important to children as their academic experience. Some may struggle to start conversations or join group activities, while others may fear rejection or being left out.
Parents can help by building their children’s confidence and social skills without putting pressure on them. Research published in Child Development and Developmental Psychology suggests that positive parental responses to children’s emotions are linked to stronger social and emotional skills and more positive interactions with peers.
Create opportunities to connect
Parents can encourage friendships by providing natural opportunities for children to play and interact with others, such as playdates, sports and group activities. Shared interests can make it easier for children to meet peers and develop friendships.
Build confidence and listen
Helping children recognize their strengths and interests can enhance their confidence. Parents should also listen when children talk about loneliness or rejection without dismissing their feelings or immediately trying to solve the problem.
Teach everyday social skills
Children can be encouraged to practice simple skills such as greeting others, asking questions, sharing, listening and respecting people with disabilities. They should also learn that friendship does not mean pleasing everyone, but rather respecting others while maintaining healthy boundaries.
The National Center for Biotechnology Information (NCBI) notes that children with particular hobbies or interests may benefit from joining related school clubs or activities, where shared interests can provide an easier starting point for friendships.
Social success does not mean having a large circle of friends. One or two trusted friends may be more valuable than popularity. Some children also need more time to adjust, making patience, encouragement and respect for their personality key to helping them feel secure and connected at school.
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